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Never stop being a good person because of bad person.

Hi! everyone, it’s been a while since I haven’t been in touch with you as I started university and it’s arduous for me to keep in touch with social media and it makes me sad as I paused my writing but somehow I started again to write 🙂. And it makes me feel happy.

In few days, I noted many things especially the behavior of the people with each other. The most painful experience I have ever experienced is that many of us change ourselves for others.

While changing yourself means shifting your unique qualities to common. We all differ from each other and it makes us unique.

Question:-

What is the reason of becoming a bad person from a good one? Have you ever think about that?

Well according to me, by trying to fit in society, or with a company that doesn’t belong to you. We try our best to fit in but as a result got upset or hurt, got anxiety and depression. And the most important is we start to Doubt on ourselves unfortunately that’s true. So, why don’t we just let go that people from our lives. We deserve respect that helps us to grow more confidently than ever before. Simply, we don’t have to surround ourselves with the people that tend to change our souls, our personalities.

Recent studies shows that cognitive dissonance is the strongest one which most people get.

Cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is the discomfort humans feel when they hold two contradictory opinions or their behavior is inconsistent with their beliefs. It’s one of the strongest psychological forces driving human behavior. When people who feel they are good do bad things, cognitive dissonance makes them ignore this behavior because they can’t tolerate the inconsistency between their behavior and their beliefs.

Raymond Hamilton,’ the Judge decreed, ‘you are here now to be sentenced, friendless and without money. Have you anything to say as to why sentence should not be passed?’
‘Yes, I have,’ answered Raymond. ‘People,’ he began, ‘I hope I have a few friends among you I want you to know I never killed anyone. . . . Crowson was going to be killed no matter what I did. . . . and I want to tell you that whenever Simmons and the others get after you together, you don’t get fairness. . . . They’re afraid they can’t hold me, that I’ll breakout and call more attention to them, so they get me ‘the chair’. . . . I don’t know if there’s anything like ‘haunts’ but if there are, I sure do want to come back and kick this whole bunch out of bed every night.’
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As the once-dapper bandit was being led past the crowd, several young women pressed against the railing, some trying to touch the gunman. Looking over his shoulder, Hamilton raised his manacled hands to wave farewell, a smile on his face.

John Neal Phillips

Conclusion

Be a good person. Everything else is secondary.