I am worth it It’s hard to admit that we can’t solve any kind of problem. Sometimes I get problems one after another. Sometimes it just feels too much to bear myself . Seems like every rock going to fall on me. But when things are too tough then I think of the faces I love and who love me. It’s truly happens and it might not change. But it’s okay to fail and trumble. I hope I could stay strong and fly. I hope one day I will pass all the hurdles of life just like my exams. Opportunities always waits. When someting is designed for us. We’ll truly get no matter what. Whatever underneath’s the ground.
“Not everyone will take you. Not everyone will support you. Not everyone will give the honor you deserve. Don’t let it bother you. That’s life basically. You need to rise and shine bright like a diamond” That’s what my dad always advises me.
I value efforts over promises. Because efforts are always better than promises.
I trust eyes over words .Because eyes never lie.
Thoughts
To everyone reading this…
Whatever the situation is, do not give up on love and yourself. Presumably, you do not need the whole world to love. You just need one person. Maybe sometimes two. Let me know what you think about love? Do you agree with me? Don’t you think that promises are not worth now? I will be happy if you share your thoughts with me?
Nelson Mandela once said, “There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
I don’t know about you, but reading those words makes me want to be braver, stand taller and dream the boldest dream I can imagine. (If Mandela, despite everything, would not settle for less, what excuse do I have?) The truth is we just don’t know how capable we are, or the things we could achieve if only we were ambitious enough and daring enough to try. Many of us are guilty of living our lives passively, settling for the cards we’ve been dealt because that’s the only certainty we know, and being too quick to interpret setbacks and failures as a sign that we are no good. But what if? What if the only thing standing between you and living an extraordinary life was an unwillingness to imagine a bigger, better life for yourself? Don’t you want to find out what you are truly capable of?
Intelligence Without Ambition Is A Bird Without Wings
If there were a mountain made of gold, Made entirely of solid gold, Not double this would suffice for one: Having known this, go peacefully
By Buddha
A Man without an aim, goal or ambitious is just like a ship without a rudder. Living a life without knowing its meaning is just useless in other words just like an eagle who has always an ambition to fly highest in the sky. A man also should have that kind of ambition to live for. A Life without purpose makes no sense.
Conclusion
A Man without an aim is like boat without a rudder
Greed and ambitious are not ultimately satisfiable even if we wanted a mountain of gold, even if we wanted an entire mountain just of solid gold getting it would not satisfy us even if we had two of them. It wouldn’t satisfy us so in so far as we’re thinking that we’re going to appease our sense of greed, our sense of desire for things, our ambition by getting what we think we want we’re wrong because even if we got what we wanted, we would still have that ambition
The ambition is something that’s rooted much deeper then the getting of things will overcome
From last few week , I started research on what is peaceful life and on mindful relaxation and I came to know this that the Buddist monks seems so peaceful all the time.This thing stuck in my mind and I searched about Buddist monks . The reason is actually that they follow certain rules of living we don’t.
Today, I am going to share some of the important and basic rules which might seems difficult but they makes our life easy.
Their whole philosophy evolves around the idea of reducing suffer.
The philosophy seem alien to me first nearly impossible and may be to you too , but the truth is it leads to higher happiness 😌
These rules will benefit you for the rest of your life.
Simplify
When you can develop a selfless attitude, you focus less on personal problems. You get less emotional about small things and your mind becomes calmer.
Actually recognizing that being more selfless towards other brings deeper happiness and is one of the pillars of spiritual life.
When we help others we find a deeper satisfaction
Meditate
Scientifically speaking, we know that meditation changes the brain. Not only that, but it changes our nature
It is an old saying that meditation was considered as
Stepping stone for enlightenment
Obviously, you probably don’t have the time to meditate for hours every day… But by doing just 30 minutes on a daily basis will transform your life. During online classes and being busy with other stuff, I also couldn’t find enough time to meditate but when I started to do in small chunks like from 20 to 30 minutes, daily I start my day with fresh and with more relaxed mind
Follow the wise
Listen to seniors and those with more experience
This is the path of wise.
If you look around, there are always insightful people to learn from. Older people have more experience which means they can offer countless life lessons
Accept Mindfulness As A Way Of Life
It’s naturally very easy to judge others. After all, it’s part of our make up to look at others and size them up. It’s our primitive brain analyzing threats and assessing the world around us. But that’s not always helpful, it sometimes teaches us to look at someone in the wrong way.
What’s wonderful about mindfulness is that its judgment-free The main goal is to take in everything that someone is saying without evaluating it.
Enhance Change
Every morning we wake up and look in the mirror.
We identify that person as ‘us’, we grow attached to this perception with our body and personality when it changes with disease, old age, or accident, we suffer .
This is true of our friends and family as well
Everything changes, it’s the fundamental law of the universe
Live in the Moment
Our minds do this funny thing where they try and live in the past or in the future rehearsing old conversations over and over again but this just isn’t reality. Life doesn’t happen between your ears it happens in the NOW.
Thoughts:
We should try to live each and every second moment of our life. Whatever you are doing, do it as it is your last. For example when someone give you an apple and allow you to eat , you will eat it within seconds, but when someone say it’s last apple in the world , you will eat with full joy .Sound funny right, but think about it. Practice one by one, it helped me alot and hope it will help you too
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Hey, Today I am going to share some of the habits that I personally started, and believe me, it’s the outcome is so awesome. We all are well aware of Einstein, Sir Isaac Newton, and Bill Gates. They all have an amazing mentality to handle things which lead them to success. We normally think that mentally tough folks as larger-than character-life-like endurance athletes, war heroes, and rages to a rich billionaire. Well, when I study I came to know that the secret behind such extreme examples of superhuman self-control is mental toughness.
Indeed,it’s the stuff of great parenting, great teaching and great leadership.Moreover becoming more mentally tough is a personal necessity if you hope to achieve your own goals or lead others in achieving theirs.
Here are 5 habits, based on science
Deal with your own weakness and don’t judge others.
Mentally strong people understand the over whelming power of the thoughts.
For example, how fillings one’s head with criticism of others waste mental space better spent strengthning and improving one’s self
Researchers found that
Judging and criticizing others establishes and increases what’s known as “bias blind spot”
And in the typical motivating example, we believe others should think as we do. We discount they’re disagreeing with as stemming from their own biases. Yet, in building mental strength, the habit we want cultivate involves catching ourselves before passing judgment. We want to avoid even the slightest criticism of others in an effect to gain mental freedom and clarity of perception.
Indeed, real mental warrior even goes the extra step of turning their own criticisms on themselves.
Don’t trust your own thinking.
The powerful trait one builds up over time is by refusing to trust ones own thinking.In other words, humble person or in other words intellectual human is aware.She knows that not only might their be other valid points of view, she accept hers might be invalid
Moreover, the humble person is willing to be proven wrong without falling apart emotionally. She is an emotional warrior.Yet, to be clear, it doesn’t means that she lack her own confidence or belief. It mean she refrains from coming to conclusions on the basis of speculative assumptions and emotions.
Don’t pity yourself
Mentally strong recognize that self-pity is a Siren that can lure you watery and psychological death. For every excuse you create a mental ‘roommate’ who constantly nags at you whenever you face the slightest difficulty.The excuses can be like that you camtbwork any harder.
Be contrast,mentally strong people rid themselves of this enemy early on.
Show pity towards others
At the same time although mental strength requires showing little pity for ourselves, showing pity for others is incredibly powerful.
Researches from Barkeley have shown that
Mankind’s development is more on the other of survival of the kindest
In other words, empathy and sympathy are more necessary for human survival
Understand fear and how to control it
One of the most important characteristics of a mentally strong people is her ability to dal with uncertain surprices-particularly with bad ones
For example, we naturally tend to greet the unknown with a very of loss .This tendency biases our thinking and impairs our actions and abilities to intelligent take risks.
Yet, mentally strong people actively resists this tendency. They Self-distance by stepping away from a situation.
Responding quickly but haphazardly to a crises is typically more dangerous than a delayed, but more thoughtful responds.I think that’s the best for position of leadership and this make the people more successful professionally.
Hence, the “fearless leader” might be redundant phrase, at least insofar as mentally strong leaders go.
Hopefully, practicing the above 5 gives you a better start.🙂
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