Love is I loved you; even now I must confess, Some embers of my love their fire retain; But do not let it cause you more distress, I do not want to sadden you again. Hopeless and tonguetied, yet I loved you dearly With pangs the jealous and the timid know; So tenderly I love you, so sincerely, Every time you saw My heartbeat goes insane. The sensation of your love for me Is almost like a pain.
And the sparkle in your eyes Every time we speak, It sends shivers down my spine And makes my body weak.
Every time you smile lights up my face, Makes me melt all over, While my heart begins to race. I felt like somethings heavier
Inside like heavy rain
loved you: yet the love, maybe, Has not extinguished in my heart; But hence may not it trouble thee; I do not want to make you sad. I loved you hopelessly and mutely, Now with shyness, now with jealousy being vexed; I loved you so sincerely, so fondly, Likewise may someone love you next.
loved you: and, it may be, from my soul The former love has never gone away, But let it not recall to you my dole; I wish not sadden you in any way.
I loved you silently, without hope, fully, In diffidence, in jealousy, in pain; I loved you so tenderly and truly,
Above all, loved you till infinity because our love is ever lasting and endless I pray May God grant another love you so
Difficulty or trouble comes when life wants you to learn how to survive in bad days
Try to survive in hard times
There are certain life lessons that you can only learn during hard times. I face many challenges and hardships in my life and at that time I used to say why am I? Like normal people..hmmm! But now I thank past
Quarter-life, midlife crises. As we age we see ourselves changing physically and mentally. We met different people at different times and we have different feelings for all of them. During this we take many hard decisions, become disappointed, suffering from depression, fear of losing someone. Changing friendship, failures, Divorce, losing a job, getting older, getting injured, and falling sick.
Our Common Moments of life
These are very common. None of us can say that we didn’t face one of them. We all face difficulty or trouble in our lives. Life is not a bed of roses. We have our moments of success and failure, of delight and despair, and of satisfaction and disappointment
You can’t be a rebel without the scars that come with it. Truth is, some days scars are just as ugly as they are beautiful. The way I see it, hard times aren’t only about money, drought, or dust. Hard times are about losing spirit and hope, and what happens when dreams dry up…
What I think is that. Without being push to the wall, we will have remained in our comfortable zone. But this circumstance challenges us to find the courage to move on.
Difficulty introduces us with patience
Difficulty introduces us with patience. Consideringlife as a blessing gives us peace and calm. Always find hope in difficulty. And always remember the best days are yet to come. We all face pain, unhappiness, anxiety, and fear in our lives. But the difference is that some take these hardships as a challenge and climb up the mountain. And some of them think as it is totally out of their dept. Its nothing to worry about we all face catastrophe.
Take a long deep breath
Conclusion:
Dreams are always crazy and directionless All of us have a place in history And history has a place in clouds
When you’re in difficulties just tell yourself I did that before, I still can do
I hope this will help you and motivate you and don’t forget that Mistakes are the best teacher in our life whatever the situation is going, you are not alone. We all suffer and face hardships in our life. Don’t give up…
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Nelson Mandela once said, “There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.”
I don’t know about you, but reading those words makes me want to be braver, stand taller and dream the boldest dream I can imagine. (If Mandela, despite everything, would not settle for less, what excuse do I have?) The truth is we just don’t know how capable we are, or the things we could achieve if only we were ambitious enough and daring enough to try. Many of us are guilty of living our lives passively, settling for the cards we’ve been dealt because that’s the only certainty we know, and being too quick to interpret setbacks and failures as a sign that we are no good. But what if? What if the only thing standing between you and living an extraordinary life was an unwillingness to imagine a bigger, better life for yourself? Don’t you want to find out what you are truly capable of?
Intelligence Without Ambition Is A Bird Without Wings
If there were a mountain made of gold, Made entirely of solid gold, Not double this would suffice for one: Having known this, go peacefully
By Buddha
A Man without an aim, goal or ambitious is just like a ship without a rudder. Living a life without knowing its meaning is just useless in other words just like an eagle who has always an ambition to fly highest in the sky. A man also should have that kind of ambition to live for. A Life without purpose makes no sense.
Conclusion
A Man without an aim is like boat without a rudder
Greed and ambitious are not ultimately satisfiable even if we wanted a mountain of gold, even if we wanted an entire mountain just of solid gold getting it would not satisfy us even if we had two of them. It wouldn’t satisfy us so in so far as we’re thinking that we’re going to appease our sense of greed, our sense of desire for things, our ambition by getting what we think we want we’re wrong because even if we got what we wanted, we would still have that ambition
The ambition is something that’s rooted much deeper then the getting of things will overcome
From last few week , I started research on what is peaceful life and on mindful relaxation and I came to know this that the Buddist monks seems so peaceful all the time.This thing stuck in my mind and I searched about Buddist monks . The reason is actually that they follow certain rules of living we don’t.
Today, I am going to share some of the important and basic rules which might seems difficult but they makes our life easy.
Their whole philosophy evolves around the idea of reducing suffer.
The philosophy seem alien to me first nearly impossible and may be to you too , but the truth is it leads to higher happiness 😌
These rules will benefit you for the rest of your life.
Simplify
When you can develop a selfless attitude, you focus less on personal problems. You get less emotional about small things and your mind becomes calmer.
Actually recognizing that being more selfless towards other brings deeper happiness and is one of the pillars of spiritual life.
When we help others we find a deeper satisfaction
Meditate
Scientifically speaking, we know that meditation changes the brain. Not only that, but it changes our nature
It is an old saying that meditation was considered as
Stepping stone for enlightenment
Obviously, you probably don’t have the time to meditate for hours every day… But by doing just 30 minutes on a daily basis will transform your life. During online classes and being busy with other stuff, I also couldn’t find enough time to meditate but when I started to do in small chunks like from 20 to 30 minutes, daily I start my day with fresh and with more relaxed mind
Follow the wise
Listen to seniors and those with more experience
This is the path of wise.
If you look around, there are always insightful people to learn from. Older people have more experience which means they can offer countless life lessons
Accept Mindfulness As A Way Of Life
It’s naturally very easy to judge others. After all, it’s part of our make up to look at others and size them up. It’s our primitive brain analyzing threats and assessing the world around us. But that’s not always helpful, it sometimes teaches us to look at someone in the wrong way.
What’s wonderful about mindfulness is that its judgment-free The main goal is to take in everything that someone is saying without evaluating it.
Enhance Change
Every morning we wake up and look in the mirror.
We identify that person as ‘us’, we grow attached to this perception with our body and personality when it changes with disease, old age, or accident, we suffer .
This is true of our friends and family as well
Everything changes, it’s the fundamental law of the universe
Live in the Moment
Our minds do this funny thing where they try and live in the past or in the future rehearsing old conversations over and over again but this just isn’t reality. Life doesn’t happen between your ears it happens in the NOW.
Thoughts:
We should try to live each and every second moment of our life. Whatever you are doing, do it as it is your last. For example when someone give you an apple and allow you to eat , you will eat it within seconds, but when someone say it’s last apple in the world , you will eat with full joy .Sound funny right, but think about it. Practice one by one, it helped me alot and hope it will help you too
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Like me, we all want some tools to make decisions faster. I also needed a push in order to get stick to my goals and not to get depression in this quarantine .
I know this pandemic stuck us all to our homes and now it becomes difficult for us to stay all the time at home far from our daily routines. Well some of us might start doing some work from home. But who hasn’t started yet they might need some push……
I started 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins. She is an American television host, author, and motivational speaker
5 Seconds Rule is so simple. It pushes me to start my work with no excuses. You should try this Rule too. It Transform Your Life, Work, and Confidence in such a way that you will be shocked by the results🙂.
What is 5 Second Rule?
If you have the instinct to act on a goal, you must physically move within 5 seconds or your brain will kill it. The moment you feel an instinct or a desire to act on a goal or a commitment, use the Rule. … If you do not take action on your instinct to change, you will stay stagnant. It gives you courage every day to start your work.
Hey, Today I am going to share some of the habits that I personally started, and believe me, it’s the outcome is so awesome. We all are well aware of Einstein, Sir Isaac Newton, and Bill Gates. They all have an amazing mentality to handle things which lead them to success. We normally think that mentally tough folks as larger-than character-life-like endurance athletes, war heroes, and rages to a rich billionaire. Well, when I study I came to know that the secret behind such extreme examples of superhuman self-control is mental toughness.
Indeed,it’s the stuff of great parenting, great teaching and great leadership.Moreover becoming more mentally tough is a personal necessity if you hope to achieve your own goals or lead others in achieving theirs.
Here are 5 habits, based on science
Deal with your own weakness and don’t judge others.
Mentally strong people understand the over whelming power of the thoughts.
For example, how fillings one’s head with criticism of others waste mental space better spent strengthning and improving one’s self
Researchers found that
Judging and criticizing others establishes and increases what’s known as “bias blind spot”
And in the typical motivating example, we believe others should think as we do. We discount they’re disagreeing with as stemming from their own biases. Yet, in building mental strength, the habit we want cultivate involves catching ourselves before passing judgment. We want to avoid even the slightest criticism of others in an effect to gain mental freedom and clarity of perception.
Indeed, real mental warrior even goes the extra step of turning their own criticisms on themselves.
Don’t trust your own thinking.
The powerful trait one builds up over time is by refusing to trust ones own thinking.In other words, humble person or in other words intellectual human is aware.She knows that not only might their be other valid points of view, she accept hers might be invalid
Moreover, the humble person is willing to be proven wrong without falling apart emotionally. She is an emotional warrior.Yet, to be clear, it doesn’t means that she lack her own confidence or belief. It mean she refrains from coming to conclusions on the basis of speculative assumptions and emotions.
Don’t pity yourself
Mentally strong recognize that self-pity is a Siren that can lure you watery and psychological death. For every excuse you create a mental ‘roommate’ who constantly nags at you whenever you face the slightest difficulty.The excuses can be like that you camtbwork any harder.
Be contrast,mentally strong people rid themselves of this enemy early on.
Show pity towards others
At the same time although mental strength requires showing little pity for ourselves, showing pity for others is incredibly powerful.
Researches from Barkeley have shown that
Mankind’s development is more on the other of survival of the kindest
In other words, empathy and sympathy are more necessary for human survival
Understand fear and how to control it
One of the most important characteristics of a mentally strong people is her ability to dal with uncertain surprices-particularly with bad ones
For example, we naturally tend to greet the unknown with a very of loss .This tendency biases our thinking and impairs our actions and abilities to intelligent take risks.
Yet, mentally strong people actively resists this tendency. They Self-distance by stepping away from a situation.
Responding quickly but haphazardly to a crises is typically more dangerous than a delayed, but more thoughtful responds.I think that’s the best for position of leadership and this make the people more successful professionally.
Hence, the “fearless leader” might be redundant phrase, at least insofar as mentally strong leaders go.
Hopefully, practicing the above 5 gives you a better start.🙂
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I have a really cozy, comfortable room that has a great, huge glass door that views my backyard. I like to look at how people work together when they are put into stressful situations, when life stops being cozy. It’s the best feeling when you wake up and it’s warm and cozy, and you don’t have to go to work.
Sometimes the best things in life are those things we wait the longest for
It’s the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious.
Many of the world’s greatest thinkers have emphasized the importance of patience.
For Aristotle, patience was bitter but the fruit it bore was sweet.
For Lao Tzu, it was one of the three greatest treasures to have, along with compassion and simplicity
Sometimes the situation becomes too complicated that your mind becomes totally freeze and you are unable to decide what to do, where to go and what to say. The situations become too hard to handle. And we want to go to a place without any problem, worries full of calm and peace.
There is nothing we can do except by keeping patience… And above all this what can even worse than you are in that age in which you try to handle the situation but you can’t.
“Learning patience can be a difficult experience, but once conquered you will find life is easier.”
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