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It’s all a lie!

To say you would always be there;
To say you would always love me,
To say you would always guide me,
To say I believe I could open myself up,
It was all a lie!
To think you were real
But your intention was evil,
To think you told me the truth,
To think you wouldn’t thinkย  bad of me,
It was all a lie!
Your first loving glance,
Your expressions,
It was all a lie!
You thought you are not less than a king
But you are not less than a traitor
You made me feel like
someone was there,
You made me feel special,
By your fake smile,
It was all a lie!
You made me feel better,
You made me feel like a lover,
As our love will live forever
But it was all a lie!
You left,


Left me in pieces
I still can’t believe it,
It’s too hard to breathe right now
Your love was like water..never dry
But now it only looks like a muddy pond
You made me feel worthless,
You didn’t feel what you have done,
You just acted normally,
I saw your love from side to side
And got to know you were,
nothing more than a big lie.


Thoughts

Not every first sight love is real love. I always waiting for him. By saying not everyone deserves me. There must be someone special waiting for me. Someone who can care, understand, forget all my minor mistakes and always keep our love forever and never let it dry because of someone else and never let me go.

He was not for me, I never realized until I lose him. Know that someone must be waiting out there. I was struck with a love that was never mine. And came to know that it was nothing more than an affection and more than a big lie which I was living for years. Now my emotions are stronger and clear. Because my love has no limit, no colors, and no race

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Gentleness

A gentle word, a kind look, a good-natured smile can work wonders and accomplish miracles. Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength.

Affection

Thoughts

Yesterday i listened the song by Elvis. The song “Love Me Tender” didn’t become a classic just because Elvis sang it. We all want to feel that emotion come our way. If you’ve avoided this level of intimacy or withheld it, it’s time to reconsider your actions. Life is so short, let yourself give and feel at a level that will make you glad to have been alive.

Can’t we be as gentle as flower ๐ŸŒธ

Be good, be kind and gentle with everyone, and for this, we just have to be good and kind with ourselves first then with others. Bring softness in your words and in your heart. Whether you stay or not but your words always stays in other’s heart.

Don’t you think our words matter most rather than our actions? Harsh behavior and harsh words negatively effects others but yourself too. Especially kids too. So can’t we be a little gentle with yourself and with others? What you think about? Let me know in comments.


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Turkish Gรถzleme

Gรถzleme is the common and traditional food especially street food in turkey. As I am now biggest fan of turkish food so I decided to cook something. Yesterday I cooked turkish gรถzleme and it came out super tasty and delicious. So I wanted to share it with you guys and I hope you’ll try it.
In this recipe the most of the common traditional fillings are parsley, meat, spanish, potato and roasted eggplant fillings. I used spinach filling. You can use whichever filling you like orย can mix them up as you please.

INGREDIENTS for 2 servings 
Time: 10 min

FOR THE DOUGH
1 cup flour
a little bit less than 1/2 cup  water, room temperature
1/2 tsp salt
PARSLEY FILLING
1/2 cup feta cheese, crumbled
1/4 cup parsley, chopped

SPINACH FILLING
150 g frozen chopped spinach, defrosted
1 small onion, chopped
1 tbsp olive oil
1/4 cup feta cheese, crumbled
1 pinch crushed pepper
Salt to taste
I like spices so i added a little bit of more pepper than above mentioned. Pepper is basically added for taste especially for those who like spices.
For GLAZE
1 tbsp butter, melted

Steps

  1. Mix the flour and the salt in a bowl, then gradually add the water, kneading as you pour and make a dough. Turn the dough onto a lightly floured working surface and knead for 10 minutes. Grease with cooking oil. Cover with a damp cloth and let the dough rest like that for 15 minutes.
  2. Sweat the onions in olive oil, until translucent sautรฉ for 4-5 minutes. Then add spinach, mix well and cook for 1-2 min. Take off heat and stir in the feta cheese. Mix well and set aside.
  3. Divide the dough into four same-sized pieces.
  4. Take a piece out of it and make a ball. Dust dry flour and roll it with the help of rolling pin and roll it as thin as possible. Roll should be of at least 25cm in diameter.
  5. Arrange the filling in the middle then fold the two opposite sides, then the second two opposite sides.
  6. Warm a non-stick pan over medium heat.
  7. Place one gรถzleme in the pan and cook it until blistered with brown spots, then turn over, and brush with melted butter.
  8. Once cooked on one side, flip it and brush the top with butter.
  9. When cooked on the other side as well, brush that side with melted butter as well.
  10. Cut into pieces, and serve warm.
  11. To make the meat filling, cook all the ingredients, then finish with a sprinkle of chopped parsley.
  12. To make theย  roasted eggplant filling, combine all the ingredients.
    For the spinach and potato filling, we have toย  first sweat the onions in olive oil, then add all the ingredients except feta and sautรฉ for 4-5 minutes.

Important tip…

The most important thing when making the dough is to roll it as thinly as possible. The filling should be spread in an even, thin layer โ€” do not overdo with the filling as the dough will break. When assembling, there are two ways of going about it. You can fold the dough in half to get a half moon shape or fold it as an envelope. If you do not have a sac, a non-stick pan will work just fine. It is crucial to brush the gรถzleme with butter or oil before cooking, and even after, as that helps to keep the dough moist

Turkish gรถzleme

If you’re food lover or not but you must try this new thing. Its so delicious ๐Ÿ˜‹. I hope you’ll like it. Don’t forget to like, share and follow. And don’t forget to share your thoughts. What are your thought about turlish food? Have you ever tried this recipe before? Do you like turkish food? Are you a food lover?

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Letter to my bestie

Dear best friend,

Though it’s only been a short while, I’ve never had a friend like you and I started missing you and the memories with you. Times takes you away from me . And left me with confusion and pain.

Your love and understanding have brought me a new hope.I wish that I could keep you here.

Tied to me with a rope. When will I see you again? The miles stretched between us. What will happen to this bond? Will we reunite to find each other?We don’t always see each other. But my heart echoes that you are always there for me. You are the flower in my garden of life.

You are my real friend, a friend who always sees the pain in my eyes while everyone else still believes the smile in my face. A friend who always teaches me to love myself, the one who always show right when I was wrong.

My heart filled with fear, afraid to lose you as time takes you and never shed a tear, unlike this desperate aching. In my heart that won’t let go, with your love, care, and respect. Our friendship is before everything.

The friendship you have given me, the joy you bring my soul has filled me with such strength.And love once unforetold.Know that it never be so short. The time we’ve spent together.
I thought you would remain here.


Sadly, wishful thinking

If your memory fades you

But remember please this thought
When you think of me. We may soon be reunite
I’ll remember just the same. Forever in my heart. Is where you will remain.
I wish that we’d remain the old friend when we meet after along time
You’ll be in my thoughts.
‘Til I see you again.

Forever and ever. How can I say goodbye? No words, just tears fall
From my eyes and sobbing heart
That knows you after all.
The minutes, seconds, and hours we’ve spent together
Without you here to talk to.
Searching for a friendly face
That knows all too well
They can never be replaced.

Regards,

Your friend

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One of the Forty Rules of Love

Hi! Everyone, I just started reading a novel by a Turkish author Elif Shafak, The Forty Rules Of Love.

I have already read half of the book. I want to share a few lines from it which always reminds me of compassion, love and brotherhood

It states that…

The universe is one being. Everything and everyone is interconnected through an invisible web of stories. Whether we are aware of it or not, we are all in a silent conversation. Do not harm. Practice compassion. And do not gossip behind anyone’s backโ€”not even a seemingly innocent remark! The words that come out of our mouths do not vanish but are perpetually stored in infinite space, and they will come back to us in due time. One man’s pain will hurt us all. One’s man’s joy will make everyone smile.

This is also known as Voice of Love. People who have never seen your face will be inspired by our voices. That’s why there is a famous quote,

Think before you speak. Read before you think

Fran Lebowitz

Thoughts

Think before you speak. Practice compassion, love, and respect. What do you think is necessary? Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it kind and important?

Because I think your words matter a lot rather than your acts.

And we can solve everything with love and respect.


What do you think? I will be glad to know what you think about this. And don’t forget to like, comment, and follow.

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Ego

Freud was an Austrian neurologist and the founder of psychopathology, a clinical method for treating psychopathology through dialogue between a patient and a psychoanalyst.

Freud got a lot right. According to Freud the human psyche comprises of 3 parts.

The ID, Ego, and Superego

What is ID?

ID : Primary impulses(food, sex, immediate gratification)

Superego

Superego: the “should” (religion culture)

Ego

Ego: try’s to do a balancing act between the two.

But our ego might be too careful at times to preventing spontaneous experiencing.


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Eight words

Noting is permanent. When I lose my love. Instead of giving up, I moved on just by thinking that someone right after him waiting for me and for making me feel special.

Don’t lose hope. Hope is something that always give you power when ever you’re done with something.

I never lose hope. You can also try this.Just by thinking this that someone might be there for you.

Thoughts

I always think of people who I love and who loves me. What do you think? Isn’t hope and courage is biggest power in this world after gratitude. I think so it is. It always help me to move ahead. Do you agree with me?

Share your thoughts. Let me know what you learn about after losing love.


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Stay Save and Healthy

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Phoenix

In order to rise from it’s own ashes, a phoenix first must burn. The phoeix hope, can wing her way through the desert skies, and skill lefing fortunes spite; revive from ashes and rise.

Our passion are the true phoenixes; when the old one is burn out, a new one rises from it’s ashes.

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Quote of the day #02

A direct message from this rule Be Good Do Good

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What is trauma

Hi, everyone. I just started research on trauma when one of my friend share her story about how she recover from it. My purpose of sharing is just to let you acknowledge about this and hope it might be helpful for all you too.

She faced tough days. To start, she have struggled with severe anxiety and depression for years. It stems from childhood trauma that makes her believe that she is worthless and will never be or do anything of importance. All she ever want to do is make life better for others and leave the world a better place, but she was let down and defeated every time she tried to do anything. She saw herself as nothing but a failure. It is so bad that she frequently have suicidal thoughts.

She felt hopeless, lost, worthless, and fearful that she will never do anything that matters.
She had to quit her job too because she was so depressed. She was extremely self-deprecating and do not value her life at all. She has given up on her dreams because things have never worked out for her.

This is nothing more than like a nightmare. It’s not as easy as it’s seem.

What is the definition of trauma in simple words?

The deeply distressing or disturbing event that overwhelms an individual’s ability to cope, causes feelings of helplessness, diminishes their sense of self and their ability to feel the full range of emotions and experiences.

Examples of traumatic events include:

  • death of family member, lover, friend, teacher, or pet
  • divorce
  • physical pain or injury (e.g. severe car accident)
  • serious illness
  • war
  • natural disasters
  • terrorism
  • moving to a new location
  • parental abandonment
  • witnessing a death
  • rape
  • domestic abuse
  • prison stay

These are some examples of traumatic events and my friend became one of the victim from it. But thank God she is totally fine by taking some help from professional therapist and by her own self belief and because of some most important people in her life. She has now started her own business. And I am so happy for her. I am glad she is fine now.

Thoughts ๐Ÿ’ญ

From my point of view Trauma is a wound, and wounds can only heal in the right environment.

Love, compassion, empathy, and time
Are the few vital ingredients that are necessary for the healing environment has key components so surround yourself with good people

For more information

Check out this link https://youtu.be/4-tcKYx24aA

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