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It’s all a lie!

To say you would always be there;
To say you would always love me,
To say you would always guide me,
To say I believe I could open myself up,
It was all a lie!
To think you were real
But your intention was evil,
To think you told me the truth,
To think you wouldn’t think  bad of me,
It was all a lie!
Your first loving glance,
Your expressions,
It was all a lie!
You thought you are not less than a king
But you are not less than a traitor
You made me feel like
someone was there,
You made me feel special,
By your fake smile,
It was all a lie!
You made me feel better,
You made me feel like a lover,
As our love will live forever
But it was all a lie!
You left,


Left me in pieces
I still can’t believe it,
It’s too hard to breathe right now
Your love was like water..never dry
But now it only looks like a muddy pond
You made me feel worthless,
You didn’t feel what you have done,
You just acted normally,
I saw your love from side to side
And got to know you were,
nothing more than a big lie.

Thoughts

Not every first sight love is real love. I always waiting for him. By saying not everyone deserves me. There must be someone special waiting for me. Someone who can care, understand, forget all my minor mistakes and always keep our love forever and never let it dry because of someone else and never let me go.

He was not for me, I never realized until I lose him. Know that someone must be waiting out there. I was struck with a love that was never mine. And came to know that it was nothing more than an affection and more than a big lie which I was living for years. Now my emotions are stronger and clear. Because my love has no limit, no colors, and no race

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Quote of the day #02

A direct message from this rule Be Good Do Good

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What is trauma

Hi, everyone. I just started research on trauma when one of my friend share her story about how she recover from it. My purpose of sharing is just to let you acknowledge about this and hope it might be helpful for all you too.

She faced tough days. To start, she have struggled with severe anxiety and depression for years. It stems from childhood trauma that makes her believe that she is worthless and will never be or do anything of importance. All she ever want to do is make life better for others and leave the world a better place, but she was let down and defeated every time she tried to do anything. She saw herself as nothing but a failure. It is so bad that she frequently have suicidal thoughts.

She felt hopeless, lost, worthless, and fearful that she will never do anything that matters.
She had to quit her job too because she was so depressed. She was extremely self-deprecating and do not value her life at all. She has given up on her dreams because things have never worked out for her.

This is nothing more than like a nightmare. It’s not as easy as it’s seem.

What is the definition of trauma in simple words?

The deeply distressing or disturbing event that overwhelms an individual’s ability to cope, causes feelings of helplessness, diminishes their sense of self and their ability to feel the full range of emotions and experiences.

Examples of traumatic events include:

  • death of family member, lover, friend, teacher, or pet
  • divorce
  • physical pain or injury (e.g. severe car accident)
  • serious illness
  • war
  • natural disasters
  • terrorism
  • moving to a new location
  • parental abandonment
  • witnessing a death
  • rape
  • domestic abuse
  • prison stay

These are some examples of traumatic events and my friend became one of the victim from it. But thank God she is totally fine by taking some help from professional therapist and by her own self belief and because of some most important people in her life. She has now started her own business. And I am so happy for her. I am glad she is fine now.

Thoughts 💭

From my point of view Trauma is a wound, and wounds can only heal in the right environment.

Love, compassion, empathy, and time
Are the few vital ingredients that are necessary for the healing environment has key components so surround yourself with good people

For more information

Check out this link https://youtu.be/4-tcKYx24aA

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Love till infinity

Love is I loved you; even now I must confess,
Some embers of my love their fire retain;
But do not let it cause you more distress,
I do not want to sadden you again.
Hopeless and tonguetied, yet I loved you dearly
With pangs the jealous and the timid know;
So tenderly I love you, so sincerely,
Every time you saw
My heartbeat goes insane.
The sensation of your love for me
Is almost like a pain.

And the sparkle in your eyes
Every time we speak,
It sends shivers down my spine
And makes my body weak.

Every time you smile
lights up my face,
Makes me melt all over,
While my heart begins to race.
I felt like somethings heavier

Inside like heavy rain

loved you:  yet the love, maybe,
Has not extinguished in my heart;
But hence may not it trouble thee;
I do not want to make you sad.
I loved you hopelessly and mutely,
Now with shyness, now with jealousy being vexed;
I loved you so sincerely, so fondly,
Likewise may someone love you next.

loved you: and, it may be, from my soul
The former love has never gone away,
But let it not recall to you my dole;
I wish not sadden you in any way.

I loved you silently, without hope, fully,
In diffidence, in jealousy, in pain;
I loved you so tenderly and truly,

Above all, loved you till infinity because our love is ever lasting and endless
I pray May God grant another love you so

Love infinity to beyond ♾
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Rise

Its better to say a magical rise after a fall

I will rise
After every fall
I will rise
And stand tall

I will rise
Over the wall
Above them all

Like the trees,
From the seeds they arise,
May fall after the storm
But they rise and rise

Like the sun
Which never dies
Though sets every night
Everyday it does rise.

I will rise
After every darkness
I will rise
After every fall

Like the ocean
Whose tide rise
After every fall

I will rise
After every fall
I will rise
And stand tall

Like a bird
Tangled in the cage
Like a kite rise in air

I will rise
After every fall
Of failure

A mind of dyanamite
Feels like fighting with demons
A sinking ship
With no cargo
But still I rise

Like every lose
There is a win
Like every fall
There is spring

I will rise
After every fall
I will rise
And stand tall

Always rise from
The ashes of
Shattered dreams

Fall down and lose
My spark but
Get back up
Like a whole damn fire

I will rise
After every fall
After every fall
I will rise
And stand tall

I wrote this poem when i found light from the dark, brighter than I ever see within myself. Cope up from lonliness. I just remind myself that…

What life taught us?

Autum always come and whispered to me ‘to fall’ but I always rise again without any regret like a dead leaf rose after every fall of Autumn

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Some of the 10 Inspirational Quotes

Here are some of the best, lifetime inspirational quotes or I can say messages. The reason I’m sharing these posts is that if some of us like me might get some help and can refresh its day and ready to explore her/his world..

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7 Habits That Change My Life

From last few week , I started research on what is peaceful life and on mindful relaxation and I came to know this that the Buddist monks seems so peaceful all the time.This thing stuck in my mind and I searched about Buddist monks . The reason is actually that they follow certain rules of living we don’t.

Today, I am going to share some of the important and basic rules which might seems difficult but they makes our life easy.

Their whole philosophy evolves around the idea of reducing suffer.

The philosophy seem alien to me first nearly impossible and may be to you too , but the truth is it leads to higher happiness 😌

These rules will benefit you for the rest of your life.

Simplify

When you can develop a selfless attitude, you focus less on personal problems. You get less emotional about small things and your mind becomes calmer.

Actually recognizing that being more selfless towards other brings deeper happiness and is one of the pillars of spiritual life.

When we help others we find a deeper satisfaction

Meditate

Scientifically speaking, we know that meditation changes the brain. Not only that, but it changes our nature

It is an old saying that meditation was considered as

Stepping stone for enlightenment

Obviously, you probably don’t have the time to meditate for hours every day… But by doing just 30 minutes on a daily basis will transform your life. During online classes and being busy with other stuff, I also couldn’t find enough time to meditate but when I started to do in small chunks like from 20 to 30 minutes, daily I start my day with fresh and with more relaxed mind

Follow the wise

Listen to seniors and those with more experience

This is the path of wise.

If you look around, there are always insightful people to learn from. Older people have more experience which means they can offer countless life lessons

Accept Mindfulness As A Way Of Life

It’s naturally very easy to judge others. After all, it’s part of our make up to look at others and size them up. It’s our primitive brain analyzing threats and assessing the world around us. But that’s not always helpful, it sometimes teaches us to look at someone in the wrong way.

What’s wonderful about mindfulness is that its judgment-free The main goal is to take in everything that someone is saying without evaluating it.

Enhance Change

Every morning we wake up and look in the mirror.

We identify that person as ‘us’, we grow attached to this perception with our body and personality when it changes with disease, old age, or accident, we suffer .

This is true of our friends and family as well

Everything changes, it’s the fundamental law of the universe

Live in the Moment

Our minds do this funny thing where they try and live in the past or in the future rehearsing old conversations over and over again but this just isn’t reality. Life doesn’t happen between your ears it happens in the NOW.

Thoughts:

We should try to live each and every second moment of our life. Whatever you are doing, do it as it is your last. For example when someone give you an apple and allow you to eat , you will eat it within seconds, but when someone say it’s last apple in the world , you will eat with full joy .Sound funny right, but think about it. Practice one by one, it helped me alot and hope it will help you too

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12 Laws of Karma

What goes around , comes back around

Karma said……

1. Don’t waste your time on revenge. The people who hurt you will eventually face their own karma

2. Only you are in charge of your happiness

3. The only person you should try to beat is the person you were yesterday

4. Never judge someone without knowing the whole story. You may think, you understand but you don’t

5. Sometimes you have to suffer in life. Not because you were bad. But because you didn’t realize where to stop being good

6. Waiting is the sign of true love and happiness

7. Someday someone will break you so badly, that you will become unbreakable.

8. No posion can kill a positive thinker, and no medicine can save a negative thinker.

9. Pleasure and pain comes from ypur own past actions. So it is easy to define karma in one sentence. “Act well, and things will go well;act wrongly, and things will go wrong.”

10. If you focus on the hurt, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will continue to grow.

11. Nothing is more precious than being in the present moment, Fully alive, fully aware.

12. Never waste a good day by thinking about a bad day.

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